You also need to know about how the other person feels about kids, (yes, no, number, who raises them) lifestyle locations, (city, suburbs, country, nomad) marriage, (soon, later, never) religion, (same, different, important, not important) family, (close, absent, involved) recreation, (outdoorsy, night life, traveler, sporty…) Those things can be discovered when you’re dating already.
Some other ways to find out more about the person you’re dating is to take a Myers Briggs personality test, the Strengths Test in Now Discover Your Strengths or go to or and create a fictional profile, answering all the questions together.
We also just released a book based on the most frequently asked questions we receive: “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want.” You would be amazed (or maybe you wouldn’t be) at how often I am asked if a guy likes them or not.
Or what it means when he didn’t text back right away. Here’s a curriculum of common situations (and what to do about them) to check out: Does He Want to Date Me Or Not?
Yes, you can share each other’s different interests, but that’s why you need to ask this question, to see if you would enjoy adapting to their interests or if they would enjoy adapting to yours. You’d be surprised with the answers to this question.
Really attractive, though older than me (10 years older actually). At one point, we got onto the subject of relationships, men and women. I could answer it here, but you might as well just read the post all about it: Guy doesn’t text back Understanding Male-to-Female Attraction: Here are a couple of hot topics in the realm of male-female attraction. Here’s a whole bunch in that arena: Does He Like Me? There is a wide range of “does he like me” questions that I get. Short answer is that you can, but probably shouldn’t since you’ll be left wondering he would have done it had you not been such an “eager beaver”.When I started writing Ask a Guy, I had no idea that it would take off like it has.I am grateful to have such loyal readers who contribute great questions to me.Then be patient and give him small, easy, bite-sized opportunities to gradually open up to you. Signs He Might Not Be Into You Not everyone is a good match with each other. Maybe, or see what Sabrina says when a guy doesn’t call. Sometimes a relationship starts out with the man pursuing you like you’re the center of his universe.And you can always check out How to tell if a guy likes you, Does he like me? And the people we’re most attracted to aren’t always the best matches for us – sometimes they are the worst matches for us! Check out: Signs He Does Not Like You, Does He Really Love Me? And somehow as time goes on, you get that feeling in the pit of your stomach that he’s losing interest in you – he no longer seems to be putting in the effort he once was.—————————————- Give the person time to think about these questions. Failed expectations are what causes a lot of disappointment.If you know what the other person expects and desires from the onset, you know if you’re able and/or willing to meet the other person’s needs and wants.Between swigs of her martini, she told me she was going to share the most important lesson she ever learned about men, women and dating: Men are idiots. If you can find a man who is less of an idiot than most, or a girl who is less crazy than most, then you’ve done well. They are typically an endless recounting of little details and interactions that swing the poor girl back and forth between thinking he’s into her and thinking he’s not. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – walking down the path of distrust or suspicion is a slippery slope. Check out these two articles that explore the topic of trust in relationships/dating: Does My Boyfriend Really Mean What He Says? Detailed answer here: Can a Girl Say I Love You First?Let me make this whole thing easy for you: If you can’t tell whether or not he likes you, your best bet is to strongly that he does and give him clear and obvious opportunities for him to make a move for you (assuming you’re into him and not just wondering for vanity’s sake.) He’s shy? If a guy doesn’t call, it means he’s just not that into me, right?It beats questions like, “What’s your favorite color?” In the scheme of things, questions like that don’t matter.