If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.
If it’s “to get to know someone”, you’ll probably seem interview-ish. People like being around fun, low-pressure people with no expectations.
Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.
If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
, the SUR employee opens up to costar Lala Kent about her past abusive relationship, which caused her to have self-esteem and intimacy issues.
As a result, Madix and boyfriend Tom Sandoval hit a dry spell, as documented on the hit Bravo show.
Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?
It’s like telling someone what’s in the present they’re about to unwrap. Focus on having fun, enjoy the mystery, and going from casual to serious will happen naturally.
If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
It’s true that being overly available can seem desperate or unattractive, but the last thing you want to do is play dating games.