He is not a chaser in the sense, he did not actively pursue me like the men I had relationships with before.
We met through a common friend and our relationship has been growing slowly but steadily.
One day, he called me and asked me if we could meet and I agreed fearing for the worst.
When we met, he apologized sincerely and when I asked him why he didn’t respond to my calls or emails, he held my hands and said he is falling for me and has mixed feelings about it.
I figured out that this may be the reason why he is slow, subdued and cautious in his approach.
Of late, he has not been responding to my phone calls or emails and that disturbed me.
On one hand he is excited and happy and on the other hand he is extremely scared and anxious because he feels that I will end up betraying him like his ex.
He did mention that it’s unfair on his part to say that but that’s how he really feels.
However my sister (with whom I share everything that’s going on in my life) cautioned me not to continue a relationship that requires me “fixing” or “helping” a man.
You can of course, be a pillar of support and understanding.
You are human and will have your limits but in any good relationship there will always be a healthy dose of give and take.
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