Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.She wants a guy who is going to step up and ask her out. Mistake #3 – Not having a plan before you text her – Lots of guys will fire off a boring text without giving it much thought. ” What they don’t realize is that she gets texts like this all the time from other guys. She still has good feelings about meeting you, and she gave you her number so she could see you again. Now if you notice in the first text, I sent a combination of stage 3 and stage 2.Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).If you send plain, boring texts like “Hey, how’s it going?” all the time, she’s not going to get any emotional value from interacting with you over text.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.
If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.