Settling is such a “bad word” when it comes to dating. That is a story that writers were paid moderate wages to create.You never want to say you “settled” with your partner, you want to have had a moviesque meetcute near a lamp post on a rainy day and barely be able to catch your breath when you look into his eyes for the first time. But at the end of the day, you want someone to come home to other than your dog so you need to be ok with meeting your future spouse online, or at the DMV.
I found when I quit using every other method, I was what I call a “down wind smoker”.Find someone that meets your requirements or be able to give on certain subjects. If you don’t love you, why would someone else be drawn to you. Become that light and you will attract those that want to be with you.D ating over 30 can be challenging but it is not impossible.I went to my “boyfriend” and took his cigarette out of his hand (maybe the second time he smoked around me) and took a puff… but the following day, about 18 hours after that puff, I suddenly felt rage, anger, bitterness, frustration and more without any kind of reason or stimulation.This was my addiction rearing its ugly little head…Sit down, pour some coffee, and set some standards.If you don’t know what you want and what to stand for then how will you be able to determine what mate you want?I tried to avoid a smoke for the majority of the day but got to the point I thought I might kill someone if they so much as spoke to me… Though in this moment I knew I needed to get back to the place I had used laser therapy 5 year prior and quit again.When I booked my appointment (only 3 weeks into smoking again), I knew I would be successful. No matter the term that is used to describe it, dating is difficult especially after the age of 30. Searching for a partner goes by many names; dating, courting, wooing, and so forth.