Laughable perhaps, but several hundred years ago that was a common reality.
The dating process of today is different in structure and purpose than it was in the era when “courting” was the operative word.
Courting was rooted in the era of arranged marriages, though the couple and their feelings often played an important role.
Still, families often met to discuss how this marriage would benefit not only the bride and groom, but the respective clans.
Male settlers came by themselves and when they needed wives, the French crown sent over women by the shipload.
When the ship arrived at the port, men would meet their brides and become engaged, if not married on the spot.
He raps on the door, squares his shoulders and runs through the words of his speech.
The door opens and he is ushered into a large, well-furnished room.
In French Canada during the era of settlement in the 17th century, the luxury of free time to spend on courting didn’t exist.
The point is, a marriage is a joining of two families as well as two young people.
Few choices and no time to date People may assume that arranged marriages were loveless matches, with frightened young people forced into lives of emotional pain and forbidding loneliness, but such was not always the case.
Growing more nervous as the minutes pass, he sets his items on the table and tries to adjust his tie. A lovely young woman wearing a long, elegant dress gracefully enters and stops a few feet from the young man, directing him to a chair.
In the other doorway stands the young woman’s mother and father.